whats ya name?

...yeah baby, whats ya numbaaaa.



yessuhh, yessuhh.

i'm back again boys and girls to write my second official article. what shall the topic be this time you ask!?

BAGGING.

bagging.."booking"...GETTING SOMEBODYS NUMBER pretty much. and no, i dont mean getting a good friends number because you lost your phone or something..i mean getting holla'd at & giving them your number & vice versa for boys.

This is something that just about everybodyyy has to deal with. I mean going to parties, going to bars, going to clubs, shit..just walking down the street you might meet somebody, strike up a conversation, and the next thing you know your asking for their number/ giving out your number.

I mean, this is how relations are started, right? You meet somebody out somewhere, begin talking on the phone/texting or whatever, then start seeing each other in person and the next thing you know your tied down...right? or wrong? Does randomly meeting people & beginning to talk to them ever ACTUALLY lead to successful relationships? Or are the most successful relationships the ones that begin as actual friendships and then evolve? [please comment & respond]

For me personally, 2 of my 3 relationships were based of randomly meeting people, talking a little, exchanging numbers and then going on from there..and the other one was like a best friend turned boyrfriend. So, i guess i've been on the extremes of the spectrum, lol...but then again, currently i'm technically single and confused.

But lets get back to what i ACTUALLY wanted to talk about lol...

so let's say it's done. you've bagged/ have been bagged. THEN WHAT?! when do you begin texting? when do you begin calling?

I, personally, say ASAP. Now, I don't mean like as soon as they walk away, lol...but like later that night or the next day. This is because when I meet somebody and like them enough to actually give them my number, I wanna start talking to them almost immediately. I wanna learn more about them, what they like, what they don't, hobbies..u know, all that stuff while their picture is fresh in my mind. At most maybe 2 days later. Maybe i'm just impatient, but by the third or fourth day I've alredy kinda given up and shrugged them off.

But more important than the timing of the first text/call is the content of it. I mean, texting is pretty straightforward and easy to manage..but at the same time, any first conversation can run dry quickly. I mean, if you've already covered the basics like age, school, hobbies & shit when you first met..what the hell is there to talk about? The first guy I ended up dating through bagging called me the night I gave him my number (I met him at dunkin donuts that afternoon...lol) and somehow we ended up talking for like at least 2 hours...it was pretty much smooth sailing from there. The other had taken the VERY safe route and facebooked me first, and actually gave me HIS number...I texted him first, we started texting, and THEN after a while began to call.

My advice for the first phone call would be to start talking to them as if youve known them for awhile. you know, joke around..tell them something funny that had happened to you earlier..whatever it takes. Becuase as i've learned all too recently, it only takes about 4-5 minutes of dry& awkward conversation to convince you that the cutie you met a few days ago aint all that...and i feel that for most guys the time limit is even shorter.



ARRRIGHT, so to tie this baby together imma spit you a few songs.



aiight, this is pretty self explanatory & exactly what im talkin' about. it's usher bagging a chick...yummm.



Nobodys Home - Avril Lavigne

THIS, on the other hand has nothing to do with what i'm talking about. most people hear "skater boi" and "girlfriend" and absolutely dismiss avril lavigne. but with this song & other songs such as "with you" she's actually had some pretty powerful stuff...and recently i've been listening to a lot more of her old stuff & Pink's old stuff...it's good.

&& lastly


Universal Mind Control feat. Pharrell Official Music Video - Common

...because it's amazing & i can't get it outta my head.

AIIGHT, peace son son.

<33333 mellow yellow.

Too Fast or????

CHECK THIS ISH OUT!!!

"It has now come to our understanding that Chris Brown's mom is worried that sexy Rihanna has been using voodoo on her son.According to her the relationship is moving way too quickly, so she feels that Rihanna must have done something to make her son fall so deeply for her."

NOTE:THIS GOT TO BE A JOKE...MAMA YOU NEED TO STOP WORRYING BOUT YA SON. IF SHE GOT ANY CARIBBEAN BLOOD, ESPECIALLY DAT BAJAN BLOOD,SHE PROABLY PUT SUMTHIN ELSE ON HIM, BUT IT AINT VOODOO!LOL

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA YES HUNNY US BAJANS PUTTIN SOMETHING ON 'EM!!!

But anywhoo... that wasnt the point of my blog... as i was looking for pictures of things that symbolize moving on too quickly... and i found that article... it was too interesting not to post. But anyways... now for my origionally intended post...

AM I MOVING ON TOO FAST??

So, there's this guy that I've had my eye on...since 9th GRADE!!! lol I mean it was jus a lil crush then, but now im gettin to know him and we're like gettin kinda close... but idk... i feel as tho im ready, but could that jus be spitefull feelings making me act out in ways such as these? Or could I really be ready to move on... I mean like I said, my relationship had beendwindling for a while... but i think it may be a lil too fast?? Plus i dont even know if this guy feels the same about me.., I dont know!!! What do yall think??

What SHE Gotta Do Wit Me?!?!

I am usually completely against infidelity. I mean I still am. But for the first time in my life I'm seein it from the perspective of the other woman. Dunn Dunn Dunn!

"here we go yo, here we go yo, so what's, so what's the scenario"

Say so and so just found out that the dude she's been seeing [on campus] actually has a long term girlfriend [back home]. What attitude should so and so have? Well usually I'd say so and so should stop talking to him. I mean she wouldn't want to be in the dudes girlfriend right. Treat others how you wanna be treated. Golden rule right?
But in actuality, so and so did nothing wrong.
He lied and said he didn't have s girlfriend. Should finding out that he was lying change her behavior? I mean he lied for a reason. What SHE gotta do wit so and so?

Girls are just as bad as guys these days.
Say you were the 'girlfriend back home'.. you can't be mad at so and so because so and so is just doing what you'd do in that position [since the dude lied]. Girls are ruthless anyway. It's true.

But at the end of the day its on the nigha.
Girls get mad at girls over this shit...
but he's playing you BOTH!

Botha y'all need to drop his ass like hot...
hot...

damn..
i can't think of a good simile..

all i know is
I MUST BE BUTTA CUZ I'M ON A ROLL!!!

lol i need to go to sleep.