10 things I hate...

I'mma switch this up.
This is ten people i hate that I can't have.
FELLAS SCROLL DOWN TIL U SEE JESSICA ALBA.
aka my list of potential [young] celebrity husbands..
the grown men would be an entire different list
[shemar moore. siigghhh..]
IN ORDER
::least to greatest::

#10
Tahj Mowry

Actor as seen on Smart Guy etc.

#9
Justin Nozuka

God I love Asians. Can I just say I'd fall in love with this boys voice.. Singer as heard in 'After Tonight' etc..

#8
Shia Labeouf

You gotta admit he is HAWT now.. But I loved him back in Even Stevens days.. Actor as seen in Disturbia etc..

#7
Columbus Short (ok hes almost grown but.. o well)

Look at those lips. Actor as seen in Stomp the Yard etc. He could get it. Mmm.

#6
Shad Moss

Look at that smile.. Look at that line-up..
I had the toughest time deciding on which pic to put up..
Rapper/Actor formerly known as Lil' Bow Wow. As seen in Roll Bounce etc..

#5
Chris Brown

More pictures of Rihanna popped up than him.
THATS A DAMN SHAME!
Can't even google his own name without a reminder..
Ya'll know who he is..

#4
Corbin Bleu

I don't think he likes his hair anymore. I think they are making him keep it up because of us, ladies. Poor thing.
Anyway, Actor Corbin Bleu as seen in the High School Musical series.
I STILL HAVEN'T SEEN HSM3 DAMMiT!

#3
Jeryn Mays

Toughest time finding a good pic, i had to go through his FB to find one..
Jeryn Mays.. Disney Channel Movie Surfer! Don' HATE!

#2
Lee Thompson Young

We've had this discussion in one of my recent blogs
Actor.. as seen in Jett Jackson

#1
Nico Cary

Had to go through his FB for a good one too..
He's an artist.. In every way shape and form.
Mm mm mmm.

Lemme know who I forgot..
I know some of you guys are prolly mad about the order in which I put some of them..
Cus Chris Brown is supposedly hot shit but like.. you gotta remember, imma dorkk
i can't handle a guy with tooooo much swag lol..
comment with your top 10..

i couldnt make this a like all girl blog so i also compiled a list of 5 girls id hit..
ONCE AGAIN IN ORDER...
::least to greatest::

#5
jessica alba

gorgeous.. she could get it

#4
alicia keys

beautiful and talented.. but she cut her hair

#3
angelina jolie

she cute.. even if her lips are made of her butt

#2
beyonce

you already know

#1
adriana lima

beautiful beautiful girl
Victoria Secret model if you didnt know...

maybe you disagree with my order, maybe you don't
maybe you think some other females should have been on here
maybe you think im a lesbian now
o well heres what you do about it..
comment with your top 5
and dont judge me

Courage to Know [the fourth]

Today's thursday and by now, I really HOPE my readers know what that means. If not, you know there's always a link for you here. Today we went to St.Mary's hall which is where the Jesuits live on the campus. Jesuits are really strong people they just get sent all over the place for the greater mission it's crazy. On top of that they take a vow of celibacy, poverty, and obedience. They can't get married, have sex, or kids. They can't own anything. They have to go to like their leader person for like allowances. And they live almost in like a dorm like us.. But I don't have enough information to write an entire blog about this so I'm going to take this on a total different turn.. And head to a subject for the grown and sexy =]

For the Grown and Sexy [the second]

A few nights ago me and the ladies had a late night get together type thing. And you know how minds get when it’s late… our discussion got pretty juicy… I brought up the point that I want a guy to get me in the mood.
I mean I have no problem getting myself in the mood, and candles and flowers and all that romantic stuff is dandy.. but what if a guy could make you want it anytime anyplace no matter the surroundings… You wouldn’t even have to mentally prepare yourself to be in the mood. With this dude, don't want to have a choice… I call him Mr.Erogenous.

Here are some tips for the rest of you mediocre males.


An erogenous zone is an area of the human body that has heightened sensitivity and stimulation of which normally results in sexual response[better known as your 'spot'] Depending on the individual, this could include any and all areas of the body, but the majority of men and women have common erogenous zones. The male and female genitalia can also be declared as an erogenous zone but for this particular article I’ll be focusing more on areas that are not directly connected to or not within the reproductive system. There will be illustrations to help you identify further the area described. And yes, these zones apply to both men and women.

Scalp-
It is an area good for petting someone; but besides that, it contains nerve endings that are sensitive to sensual stimulation. Brush the hair or the scalp with your fingers. Not advisable for those with flakes but you’re always free to try.
I personally love when a guy puts his fingers through my hair like J.Holiday lol. I love head massages or just when a guy is playing with my hair. I also like holding the back of a guys head or rubbing his head. I don’t know if guys actually like it or not lol

Ears-
Bundles of nerve endings are in and around the ears, making them ultra-sensitive to your touch. Use the pads of your index finger and thumb to massage the outer ears with slow, firm movements. Gently squeeze the earlobes. Explore the area behind the ear with your lips and tongue, and then exhale deeply but gently while you keep nibbling. Avoid the ears with severe “otitis” related infections.

I personally love doing this [and I hear I’m pretty good at it] But I dislike it when it’s done to me.. Hmm. Idk why. I feel like some people blow too hard and aren’t gentle with it.. Sometimes I even hold my breath while doing it. It’s like.. people that can’t whisper.

Neck-
This might be a hot spot for everybody. The reason: the neck is sensitive to gentle and firm pressure applied to it. Kissing, caressing, and a little nibbling on the neck are potentially powerful in terms of stimulating your partner. Sucking blood, on the other hand, will land you in jail, unless you’re a vampire.Not just any part of the neck, but the BACK of the neck. Starting in the hollow part behind her ear, try to just barely brush the surface of her skin with your breath before initiating light contact. The goal is to try to keep the touch light enough to be noticed, but not so light that it starts to tickle. Kissing is always a plus, but remember to measure her state of euphoria based on how deep she is breathing.

I feel like in middle school when we talked about 'spots' everyone said their neck and everyone assumed neck. I know for me, my neck was never like my main spot. But now, some guys do a very good job with it.

Breasts-
I know its another obvious zone, but try to avoid going immediately to the nipples. The whole breast area is sensitive from the bottom of the neck so start nibbling or touching her collar bone. Start by making small circles and gradually spread them out until you cup your hand gently under her breasts. The nipples should be your eventual destination, not the first. Women get wetter when you play with their breasts at the right moment. Men like it when women caress their chests and compliment how hard or tough it is. For men it’s more psychological when the chest area is concerned. Of course, there’s a part of stimulation there when we talk about nerves. But for the women, it’s really sensual stimulation we are talking about. The real target here is the nipple area but it can’t be really stimulating unless your partner is really turned-on. Touch the breast softly, then lift your hand away for a moment, and then continue. That allows your partner to have the important moment of anticipation. Stick to indirect stimulation of the nipples until they become aroused (hard). That’s the time when you start playing with the nipples with your hands or your mouth. Nipples and the areola are rich in nerve endings in both men and women.

I personally hate it when guys go straight for the nipples like… wha da?! And I get more out of watching his facial expressions then the actual act. And a lotta ya’ll take the word ‘nibble’ as bite and get out of control with it. I can honestly say I know like.. ONE guy that does this correctly. Got your pen and pad? Cuz ya’ll should be taking notes.

The Back-
Usually, it’s not that arousing but it’s enjoyable especially if you start massaging. Besides the pleasure of light and firm pressure on it, it also releases tension. It could even help with arousal, by increasing blood flow and engorgement in the pelvic area. It never hurts to throw in a few kisses there as well.

What? Not that arousing? I get aroused via back all the time! Kidding. But it feels hella good tho.

Stomach Area-
This is the area around the navel down to the pubic region. The thin dermis and minimal tissue in the area results in closely set nerve networks. Massaging this area can be ticklish for some; but once arousal reaches critical, massaging it can be extremely pleasurable.
Ribs - Not the entire rib cage, but the area closer to the breasts. Press gently and follow the lines of her ribs to- wards her breasts, but stop short of her actual breasts. You can use your tongue, fingers, or even the tip of your nose. If you want to add a little spice, try it with ice in your mouth.
Navel - This is another one of those love/hate zones. Find out if this tickles her fancy before you try it. If she's into it; use anything from your tongue to a strawberry. Don't make me explain the fruit...

LOVE IT! And I think I speak for all ladies when I say that. Like the lower waist is a big one… and like the side of the body.. Yeah… sigh.

The Buttocks-
As our butts are comprised of thick skin, muscles, and sometimes fat, stimulating it takes more pressure. They are less sensitive but intensely arousing when you know how to deal with them. They need stronger stimulation - try holding, kneading, patting or smacking. In all positions, the muscular movements of coitus stimulate the buttocks. Increase the pleasure by holding the buttocks tightly during intercourse.

In other words, smack dat ass. Pahahahaah.

Legs-
Inner thighs are always a great place to turn your partner on, as they don’t get touched much during every day life. Whether it is touching, kissing, licking, or nibbling, virtually everything you do around this area will be highly arousing. This and the stomach area can be used to approach the genitals during stimulation. It can also be used to tease your partner by trying to avoid his/her hot spot leaving them wanting for more. It sounds obvious, but don't just use her thighs as an expressway to her genitals. Spend some serious time caressing the inside of her legs and tease her by stopp- ing just short of the mark. The thighs are one of your best choices for massage oils or lotions.
Back of the Knees - Women know enough to put perfume back here so make sure you take the time to notice. Its also a very ticklish spot for some, so you would do better to kiss her gently and work her way to the inside of her thighs.

Inner thighs… Ahhh yes. That’s a good one. I doubt this is a unisex erogenous zone because I couldn’t see myself groping any guys inner thigh. It’d be a little strange. Don’t cha think?

Fingers and Toes
They're a lot more sensitive than you might think and for whatever reason, a relatively large area in the brain receives sensation for them. Lightly kissing or passionately sucking them, especially combined with the sensations you're causing in the genitals, can be incredibly erotic.If you want to start slow, caress her toes while giving her a foot massage and work between. I don't know any woman who would turn down a foot massage, so your chances of playing footsie look pretty good.

I used to think toe sucking was gross til this guy did an amazing job. I wouldn’t suck nobody’s toes though. And he said he only did it cuz I have nice feet but I’m pretty sure my toes weren’t the first he’d sucked. He also gave a really really good foot massage. If you guys would get over your effin foot fear you could be providing some ladies with some good ish.

Lips-
Men and women love kissing. You might not know it but the lips have network of sensitive nerves capable of arousing you when stimulated. The tongue and the cavity inside the mouth are also as sensitive. That’s the reason why French-kissing is such a fun activity to indulge in. Beware of bad breaths.

I love kissing... SOME people. It's weird because some people aren't bad kissers they just kiss differently. Some people like a lotta tung, some people only like a little bit, some people like a lotta lip and no tung at all. I mean I can work with any style but I have a style that I prefer. And when the guy I'm kissing has the same style, it just makes it so much more enjoyable =]

Here's a little funny for you.

MY NEW FAV. SONG!

"you ain't gotta take ya panties off just move em to the side"
This song is called I Like to Fuck by Hot Rod Feat. Tila Tequila and B.Dozer

"pretty bitch lights on ugly bitch lights off"
you HAVE to see the lyrics... like... they say 'Chaka Khan' and 'Michael Jackson' in the background... it's CRAYYYZEE... don't you hate when dumb songs have great beats??
"suckin on my titties so milky"
WOW
but on a more serious note...
this is my new favorite song/artist
his voice is UHH-mazing

JANET! [the first and second] combined

Didnt see the first Janet post?? Click Here.

Livin' In Perfect Harmony

Today we're going to talk about the good stuff.

Love, relationships maybe some sex. You know, all that good stuff. I have a couple topics I want to discuss that have been heavy on my mind. These include, biracial couples, dating people with heavy accents, or dating a person that primarily speaks another language. I also want to hit the topics of liking the idea of someone verse actually liking them. That will also include someone having potential verse someone having something special. And last but def. not least.. dating athletes... Let's get it.

Bi-Racial Couples

He better get it.

Lol.

I have no problem with bi-racial couples. Matter fact, I want to marry an Asian man so my kids can look like Amerie. no suh, see that's the problem right there. I feel like some ghetto black broads date outside their race because they want their kids to have good hair and a nice complexion. I don't know about you but, that pisses me the fvck off. If you were to date outside your race, what would be your reasoning??

I know for me, I am actually attracted to guys of a lot of different races. I don't know how people can straight up say.. I only talk to white girls or I only talk to black and Spanish guys like.. You never know what is gonna appeal to your eye. And you def. never know what's gonna appeal to your heart. My roommate is always talking about how theres no such thing as liking only light skin black boys or only liking dark skin black boys. And she's right, maybe you usually pull light skin black boys or they catch your eye first but eventually there will be a dark skin boy that you find absolutely gorgeous. You can't limit yourself.

And I try not to limit myself but... It's like guys outside my race(s) don't take me seriously. We've all been through it. You approach a group of your caucasian associates and they all start trying to 'act black' "What's Up DAWG!" and they try to dap you up.. Or they try to 'act black' by saying "Shooot" or "Girrrrrl" and it's like you don't have to change they way you act because a black person has approached you. It pisses me off yo. Because what if I was genuinely interested in you. I can't even get past that interest because you feel like you can't be yourself, or have to be someone else when you're around me. Are black girls just too unapproachable? or intimidating?

Hell, sometimes I feel intimidated. A lot of people stick with their culture group. Hispanics tend to date hispanics [and stay with them forever] asians usually date asians.. And when I have a genuine attraction for either a hispanic guy or an asian guy I feel like even if they are being themselves around me, they'd never take it past the friendship level to anything serious because I'm not hispanic or asian or cape verdean. Is this true? Honestly with the hispanic and asian aspect of it.. Sometimes I feel inferior to the hispanic and asian females I'm 'competing' against [for lack of better words]. They're beautiful. Can a hispanic or asian guy see beauty in me, even though I'm not hispanic or Asian??

Maybe they think the same thing that I think about them. Maybe they're afraid that I don't date out of my culture. But hell, I don't know how anyone can look at me and say that. I'm mixed with so many things. Geez. Do you guys think I could bag a Hispanic or Asian guy tho?? How do I know if he's taking me seriously?

It shouldn't be about this. right? Like, we should like people for what they are inside and all that corny junk. But the truth is, attraction is the first step. I don't care what anyone says, relationships with people you aren't attracted to DON'T WORK! I've been there, tried that.

All of these black and white people dating each other are the beginning of a melting pot and soon enough everyone should be able to date everyone but right now I'm still intimidated when it comes to approaching a Hispanic or Asian guy.

Accents

I've always straight up said if I found a black guy with a British accent panties would drop immediately, not literally but you get the point. I think British accents are soooo HOT! And French guys with nice bods and long hair are hot too.. So I started making the generalization that guys with accents were hot. Boy, was I wrong.

Over the past few weeks, I have encountered two new accents. I met a kid from the Ivory Coast whose accent was mixed with a Boston accent and it was just... strange.
I also met a kid from Nigeria and it was just... gross..

What sucks is, they were both very attractive males but I couldn't get past the accent.
Am I shallow?

The fact that I can't get past something on the outside? I mean it's almost the same as the people that don't date outside their race or complexion. I don't date outside my accent with the exception of a hot British guy.
Would you be embarrassed of a guy or girl with a gross accent? Like, in public.

It's almost the same as dating a straight guy that's kind of.. flamboyant. You'd be a little embarrassed. Or dating a guy that couldn't dress... at all.

What's acceptable and what isn't. What do I need to get over and what requirements do I keep?
And seriously, am I shallow?

Different Language

This also goes back to the bi-racial thing and like how.. people of the same cultures tend to associate with each other. If you aren't a part of that culture and like, your boyfriend brings you to a family event or to like the meeting for the Korean club like, how do you know if people are talking shit when they're speaking Korean? Can I just state a fact, if you and the significant other don't speak the same language at all, it's not going to work, period. But I'm talking about if the other person speaks say, Spanish to his roommates or most of his friends. Wouldn't you feel left out?? Wouldn't it just make your insecurities worse or create concerns??

This isn't about language but like... How do you deal with it when you're significant other is like.. really nice ...to everyone. Opens doors, carries things, tutors, touches that spot on their lower back [not too high where it's just friends but not too low where it's I just want some ass. Hitch anyone?]. And how do you deal with it when all of his friends... that he's nice too... are GORGEOUS and awesome... Lol. I guess you just have to trust the fact that.. he's with you right. Meaning he made a choice to be with you.. when he could have chosen her. Right? Then why do guys cheat? Or have things on the side? Like, don't make it official if you have other prospective bun joints. Because once you make that commitment.. I'm trusting that you chose me. Right?

Liking Someone VS Liking the Idea of Them

I could argue about this topic for hours but basically, we all have an ideal girlfriend or boyfriend in mind right... Like I want my husband to be taller than me with my heels on.. Nice body, humorous, relationship with God, into performance, visual and fine arts, in touch with his emotions, confident, etc. So when I find someone that meets my criteria, I think I like them but really.. I just like the idea of them..

Someone that fits your criteria has potential.. Having potential doesn't mean that he's the one. It means he fits the criteria and he's convenient... There is a certain 'it' factor that one must have to be the one. He could also have 'it' and not have potential. There could be something about him that draws me in yet he could have a girlfriend, or dress weird, or be short.

My problem is deciding whether or not I actually like someone, or if I just like the idea of them. Do you have to like the idea of someone BEFORE you begin to like them?

I don't think so. I think you have to like the idea of someone before you get into a relationship with them but I don't think liking the idea of someone is a prerequisite for just liking them. I have liked the idea of a few people at BC but no one has 'it' yet. I've even begun to like some people that I like the idea of but still not 'it' factor. Am I wasting my time if I entertain these 'it'-less guys? Or should I just wait until I find someone with the 'it' factor??

Dating Athletes

you guys remember my article about dating freshman... I feel like when it comes to dating athletes, everyones the Freshmen.

Why do we classify athletes in such a separate category? Have their actions given themselves this rep or have our assumptions of them forced them to act this way?

I feel like I came to college with this huge mentality that every male athlete was going to be an asshole.. I feel like there are definitely a few male athletes that have proved me right but I also feel like I am witnessing the transformation.
Some of them start off as nice guys, but when bitties with raging hormones get athlete-happy what do they expect? To get treated like a lady? Oh yeah, here's my pussy on a platter. Athlete: no, no I can't accept that. YEAH RIGHT! It grows to the point that they expect pussy on a platter, from every female.. because SOO many females are handing it over. And when you're that girl that's like.. Suck your dick? What?! Nigha, hell no! You think he's an asshole because of how he approached you. And yes, i agree, he was out of place but, what did you expect when every other female is like "I'll do whatever you liike". Are there any athletes that don't transform?? Or are they all bound to be assholes...

By the way, as friends a lot of them are madd cool but I'm talking about relationship wise.


I asked a lot of questions..
So here they are conveniently posted again for your convenience lol.
You don't have to answer like all of them or anything, you don't get a grade for this or anything. I'm just interested in what other people think about this...


*1*If you were to date outside your race, what would be your reasoning?

*2*Are black girls just too unapproachable? or intimidating?

*3*Can a hispanic or asian guy see beauty in me, even though I'm not hispanic or Asian?

*4*Do you guys think I could bag a Hispanic or Asian guy tho?

*5*How do I know if he's taking me seriously?

*6*Am I shallow?

*7*What requirements are acceptable and what aren't. What do I need to get over and what requirements do I keep?

*8*If the other person speaks say, Spanish to his roommates or most of his friends. Wouldn't you feel left out?? Wouldn't it just make your insecurities worse or create concerns??

*9*How do you deal with it when you're significant other is really nice to all of his friends that are gorgeous and awesome?

*10*He made a choice to be with you.. when he could have chosen her. Right? Then why do guys cheat? Or have things on the side?

*11*Do you have to like the idea of someone BEFORE you begin to like them?

*12*Am I wasting my time if I entertain these 'it'-less guys? Or should I just wait until I find someone with the 'it' factor??

*13*Why do we classify athletes in such a separate category? Have their actions given themselves this rep or have our assumptions of them forced them to act this way?

*14*Are there any athletes that don't transform?


Totally forgot to ask about sex with people from other races and cultures... what's it like? is it much different? anyone have any crazy sex stories with people of other cultures? You can be anonymous if you want.

And if you haven't read season of love... please do.. you can click it..

I Just Have to Say Thank You.

Thank you, Jesus!

You guys don't understand.

I have just received a HUGE blessing

from my school.

And I just had to stop and thank him.

I haven't written a blog in some time so let me update you guys.

Here's the blog I was going to publish Thursday if I had time.

Courage to Know [the second]

I thought it was going to be a bad day. I overslept. Hit my foot on the wood on my way out the bed [that's not funny]. There are 3 showers in the bathroom I like and two of them were dirty. Dropped the soap, repeatedly [also not funny]. Accidently put my ProActiv on my toothbrush [ok, that's funny]. I had to courtesy flush! GROSS! But the day began to look up once I got to class. 

It was a Thursday. You know what that means [don't know? click here] We had a guest speaker to class from the Women's Resource Center. We talked about rape and sexual assault and a bunch of stuff like that and I found it really interesting. They gave us scenarios and we had to figure out if the person in the situation had given consent or not and you guys would be surprised at how hard it is to decide is it was consent or not. 

Fun Fact: In Massachusetts, no one can give consent under the influence of alcohol.

I realize females are very confusing. Sometimes no means yes. Sometimes yes means I have trouble saying no. Sometimes silence means proceed and sometimes silence means no. But how do we expect the male to know this unless he is told? I'm not saying pull out a contract as you pull out the contraceptives. I'm just saying make sure consent is a verbal agreement.

And guys, don't just assume that after your girl has f-ed you once or twice, that every time you wanna have sex she's going to want to. It is possible to rape someone you're sexually active with. 

It sounds like it will like.. totally ruin the moment or whatever but trust me, it won't. It's not a big deal. Just a simple, "You ready?" will do the trick and a simple nod will seal the deal.

I also got a lot out of my second Thursday class. We did like a grammar review and my teacher showed us a clip from The Office [one of the best shows ever btw]. It took me a really long time to find so you better enjoy it.

to top of my entire day, I saw him in the dust bowl.. Who is he, you ask? Ah, wouldn't you like to know.

Ya'll should know by now that I change my mind like I change my clothes [Lol B.Coles, name that song(s)]..