My suit mates boyfriend sent me a message on facebook chat this morning... while i was at work... and this is what it said.
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Hey Jaz hope im not bugging u at wrk or anything, but if possible can you start assisting with taking out the trash as well. normally its fine me or *her* just do it. But we went out of twn this weekend but wen we got back it had bugs in it and everything. Not sure what cuased that. But i know you were back b4 we were and could have dumped it real quick.
this is all from me, not trynna cuase beef between you and *her* so if u take any offense this is from me not her
Me
i actually dumped what i could
i cant carry that big thing out by myself
and i also was only home for 5mins and left right after that
E
oh ok im not trynna cuase problems but the bugs were disgusting and i kno none of us want that in the dorm
Me
but i did take out what i could
E
ok thats cool
This conversation pisses me the fuck off. This woman and her boyfriend ALWAYS have something to say. And I do my part in living with her.
Lemme give y'all some examples.
"here we go yo, here we go yo, so what's so what's the scenario"
Scenario1:
When we first moved in, she knew I didn't have any pots and pans and she said I could use ANY of her things ANYTIME.
Knowing that sometimes ppl say stuff they don't mean... I didn't use any of them for a while.. like.. two weeks in..
I used her pan to make some eggs one saturday morning... i washed it and put it in the sink because I thought she ran the dishwasher...
THIS CHICK COMES TO ME LATER THAT DAY LIKE... DO YOU MIND ATLEAST RINSING OUT THE PAN YOU USED BECAUSE IT'S MY BOYFRIENDS AND HE IS REALLY PARTICULAR ABOUT HIS STUFF..
like, Bitch did you not see that the pan was clean? YOU didn't tell me your boyfriend had his pots and pans there too!
WELL IF YOU HAD RINSED IT YOU COULD HAVE JUST PUT IT IN THE DISHWASHER
Well, I thought you said you were running it today..
IF ITS LOCKED THEIR CLEAN IF IT'S UNLOCKED THEIR STILL DIRTY.
You are not my mother.
...damn!
I wanted to blog this the MINUTE it happened but I didn't because I was afraid she would read it but at this point. idc.
Scenario2:
Sooo she and I were talking about how we should have a party.. And we're both like yeah yeah we have all this space etc... something small.. yadda yah... I suggested a weekend and then she told me she'd be out of town but that I should def still do it..
SO I DID...
I put 'DO NOT ENTER' signs on both of her doors and monitored the doors.. I told everyone NOTHING in the fridge was mine and the only thing they were pullin out was liquor!
Monday I walked to my room to a 'note' on my door
(Yes, yes y'all she took it back to seventh grade. I still have the note too!)
It was saying I APPRECIATE THE SIGNS ON THE DOOR BUT SOME OF MY STUFF WAS STILL TAMPERED WITH COULD YOU JUST WATCH YOUR FRIENDS A LITTLE MORE CLOSELY.
Tell me what was tampered with and I'll handle it.
NEVER RESPONDED.
do you just like hearing yourself??? write me a note when there's a real problem!
Scenario3:
And now this, Both of us were out of town this weekend.
THEY left AFTER me.
THEY could have taken out the pile of trash.
NOTHING has been added to the trash this weekend, it is the same pile of junk that was there friday
BEFORE THEY LEFT.
And whats crazy about this is...
I DID get back before them,
I DID notice that there was a lot of trash,
AND I TOOK WHAT I COULD OUT.
I couldnt carry the big ass recycling bin out by myself!
But I took out the paper bags and dumped the actual trash can.
So DONT come at me about this shit when yall could have easily dumped it on friday.
Its like they notice one thing and suddenly I have a generalization above my head. So this is what I said..
When we first moved in, she knew I didn't have any pots and pans and she said I could use ANY of her things ANYTIME.
Knowing that sometimes ppl say stuff they don't mean... I didn't use any of them for a while.. like.. two weeks in..
I used her pan to make some eggs one saturday morning... i washed it and put it in the sink because I thought she ran the dishwasher...
THIS CHICK COMES TO ME LATER THAT DAY LIKE... DO YOU MIND ATLEAST RINSING OUT THE PAN YOU USED BECAUSE IT'S MY BOYFRIENDS AND HE IS REALLY PARTICULAR ABOUT HIS STUFF..
like, Bitch did you not see that the pan was clean? YOU didn't tell me your boyfriend had his pots and pans there too!
WELL IF YOU HAD RINSED IT YOU COULD HAVE JUST PUT IT IN THE DISHWASHER
Well, I thought you said you were running it today..
IF ITS LOCKED THEIR CLEAN IF IT'S UNLOCKED THEIR STILL DIRTY.
You are not my mother.
...damn!
I wanted to blog this the MINUTE it happened but I didn't because I was afraid she would read it but at this point. idc.
Scenario2:
Sooo she and I were talking about how we should have a party.. And we're both like yeah yeah we have all this space etc... something small.. yadda yah... I suggested a weekend and then she told me she'd be out of town but that I should def still do it..
SO I DID...
I put 'DO NOT ENTER' signs on both of her doors and monitored the doors.. I told everyone NOTHING in the fridge was mine and the only thing they were pullin out was liquor!
Monday I walked to my room to a 'note' on my door
(Yes, yes y'all she took it back to seventh grade. I still have the note too!)
It was saying I APPRECIATE THE SIGNS ON THE DOOR BUT SOME OF MY STUFF WAS STILL TAMPERED WITH COULD YOU JUST WATCH YOUR FRIENDS A LITTLE MORE CLOSELY.
Tell me what was tampered with and I'll handle it.
NEVER RESPONDED.
do you just like hearing yourself??? write me a note when there's a real problem!
Scenario3:
And now this, Both of us were out of town this weekend.
THEY left AFTER me.
THEY could have taken out the pile of trash.
NOTHING has been added to the trash this weekend, it is the same pile of junk that was there friday
BEFORE THEY LEFT.
And whats crazy about this is...
I DID get back before them,
I DID notice that there was a lot of trash,
AND I TOOK WHAT I COULD OUT.
I couldnt carry the big ass recycling bin out by myself!
But I took out the paper bags and dumped the actual trash can.
So DONT come at me about this shit when yall could have easily dumped it on friday.
Its like they notice one thing and suddenly I have a generalization above my head. So this is what I said..
Me
i just feel like yall always have something to say
Me
but like my stuff has been moved.. she doesnt clear the microwave back to 0 and stuff like that but i don't say anything abt it
i just put my stuff back or press clear and go about my business
i do take out the trash and this was one time that i couldn't carry that thing out
and it get generalized as if i do it all the time
same with everything else shes said to me
but no worries ill just stay out of yall hair all together and get my own trash bag
E
im sry you feel that way. if we were doing sumthing that was bugging or irratating you. You should have just said sumthing. And like i said this was all from me. So hopefully this doesnt cuase any beef between the two of you. And really i was just letting you know what was happening with the trash and bugs being in there. i dnt think u getting ur own thing is neccesary. Just pointing out i think for the sake of pest nd such we all should attempt to take out the trash more often
I know clearing the time on the microwave is really small but ITS REALLY ANNOYING to think it is 1:35 pm when its really like 4pm because she left a minute and 35 seconds on the microwave! But I didn't say shit.. cuz it's not a big deal!
They moved the TV and the tv stand... never moved it back. I just moved it back. Cuz it's not a big deal.
I vacuum the entire suite, spray febreeze, after she cooks her african food that stinks up the entire place.. but i don't say anything. Cuz it's not a big deal and I can fix it myself..
She took all the space in the freezer... I didn't say anything.. like..
She has her faults too yo..
AND HER BOYFRIEND AIN'T EVEN ALLOWED TO BE THERE!
and he gon talk shit..
ugh. i'm so aggravated.
Can I get some feedback?
They moved the TV and the tv stand... never moved it back. I just moved it back. Cuz it's not a big deal.
I vacuum the entire suite, spray febreeze, after she cooks her african food that stinks up the entire place.. but i don't say anything. Cuz it's not a big deal and I can fix it myself..
She took all the space in the freezer... I didn't say anything.. like..
She has her faults too yo..
AND HER BOYFRIEND AIN'T EVEN ALLOWED TO BE THERE!
and he gon talk shit..
ugh. i'm so aggravated.
Can I get some feedback?
4 people left me some shugga!:
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everybody just calm down
nah man FUCK
everybody get wired up!!!
hey well i think that you should try to talk to your roommate about how you feel. It is clear that you are very aggravated, but if the girl and her boyfriend see your posting it might hurt her feelings or provoke further unnecessary drama. Try talking to her and telling her how you feel. I feel that a lack of communication or miscommunication can result in roommate issues like the ones you just brought up. Also by putting names in your blog you also are putting their business out there. I know that your blog is so you can express your feelings but also keep in mind other people as well. This is just a suggestion- not a posting to get you upset. Hopefully this helps hun.
its actually not my room mate its a suite mate so you can imagine that that makes for a lot less tension. we barely ever cross paths. most of my readers are not from the area. so although there were names, not many know who they are specifically..
and like i said.. i just don't really care
nah, fuck that. i feel u on the microwave thing...esp mid day when it actually could be 1:35... but its really 1:53...and then i miss my bus... but anywhoo, nah, thats a blower... i hope i dont have any encounters with her when i come...
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