"why'd you leave?"

Do I remind you of Brenda? I remind myself of her sometimes...


but No...
this isn't gonna be another sob story blog about Heartbreak.
BUT i haven't done a situational article in a while y'all.
lets bring it back

"here we go yo, here we go yo, so what's, so what's the scenario"

Situation I:
Klaire is supposedly talking to Jerry. However Jerry and Lola have had previous relations. A school project put Klaire, Jerry and Lola in the same room.
Everything was cool at first.. Klaire and Jerry are flirting consistently, it's obvious there's something going on between them. However, when Klaire leaves the room to powder her nose...

..she returns to find Lola ALL OVER Jerry. Knowing there is no 'label' on their relationship she didn't say anything. So to avoid wearing her emotions she decided to leave.

A Minute Later: Klaire recieves a text from Jerry. "why did u leave?"

Situation II:
Janice is supposed to be talking to Carl. [yes the same Carl from A Nightmare Before Spring Break] It is the first day back from spring break and Carl texts Janice "im bak". Janice was working on a school project with Lola, Klaire and Jerry and couldn't respond at the time. Once she finishes and makes her way back to her room she decides to text Carl, asking him what he was doing. He doesn't respond. She calls. He doesn't answer. Seeing that the light in his room was on, she figures she'll just surprise him [maybe he's in the bathroom]

...SURPRISE
Carl and a girl he used to talk to lie beside each other in his bed. Two other chicks in the bed across and one other male playing a video game. Janice keeps composure and makes small talk. "You look cute" said Carl... she could feel her anger building.. So she removes herself from the situation to avoid wearing her emotions.

A Minute Later: Janice recieves a text from Carl. "why did u leave?"

NOW YOU TELL ME ARE THESE NIGHAS STUPID OR ARE THEY STUPID? WHY DID JANICE AND KLAIRE LEAVE???!? WRONG QUESTION! WHY THE FUCK SHOULD THEY HAVE STAYED?
SEE THIS 'NO LABEL' SHIT GETS YOU FUCKED UP YO. DOES NO LABEL MEAN NO FEELINGS? DOES NO LABEL MEAN NO CONSIDERATION?

WAS KLAIRE REALLY SUPPOSED TO SIT THERE AND WATCH WHILE LOLA WAS ALL OVER JERRY?
WAS JANICE REALLY SUPPOSED TO STAND IN THE MIDDLE OF THE ROOM WITH SOPHIA NEXT TO HER MAN?

...hell NO

In my opinion... Klaire and Janice did the right thing. They avoided confrontation and evacuated immediately. Now, I don't know how the conversation went for Klaire and Jerry but I do know how Janice's and Carl's went.
The bottom line is... neither of these nighas thought they were wrong. Mellow Yellow thinks that they wouldn't have asked, "why did u leave?" if they had cared or if they felt guilty about something.
But I think nighas are smart enough to be like "why did u leave?" regardless.. and i also think that someone needs to TELL them why they were wrong for future reference.

It's like those nighas that say gettin head isn't cheating.
Just cuz you ain't do nothing for her don't mean you ain't do nothing wrong.
Carl and Jerry LET these females proceed.

But whole time...
thats not even my problem.
My problem is, Carl could have responded to Janice and said, "you might not want to come by, Sophia is here". Janice knows about Sophia and her extra clingy tendencies. Janice and Sophia have almost gotten into it before. Now, this could have been easier on Janice if Carl had just responded to her text message or answered her call. He was probably trying to avoid them running into each other put BADAOW... look what scheme scheme plot plottin got YO ASS CARL.. YEAH CARL... HOW YOU FEEL NOW CARL??

..he don't care
he don't see why Janice is mad..

do you?