If I was your best friend..

...i'd want you around all the time

Hey yall,

The topic today issssss OPPOSITE-SEX BEST FRIENDS….and when they become more :P

YUP!You’ve heard it all before..best friends turned lovers. Cute stuff, right? Yessir. But what you hear more often is friends, turned lovers, turned…nothing. When the relationship goes array shit just…stops. And nobody wants that. Like, at all. How often do you hear people claiming that they don’t wanna get into a relationship with somebody because they don’t want it to ruin the friendship that they already have?

But, what if the relationship that you have with your best friend is more like a bf/gf relationship then anything else? Like, texting/calling eachother 24/7...he pays for almost everything...you talk about everything( ..except talking to people of the opposite sex)

Ima be a loser right now and make a quick reference to DEGRASSI. There were these two characters Marco and Ellie who were like best best friends..completely obessed with eachother & all that ish. They eventually lived together, and were pretty much dating. (Side note: he was gay…but whatevs lol) ANYWAYS, one day they hook up and then its like…OH SHIT! WHATS GOING ON HERE? (and yes…DRAKE/aubrey graham starred in degrassi too..yeah, I grew up on him..)

But anyways, what do you do when that happens? What if the way you just interact with somebody is NOT what the title entails? That’s like calling somebody your best friend when you never want to hang out with them..or calling somebody your enemy when you guys get along just fine. It just doesn’t work, right?

Well, in my mind there are a few ways to handle this situation:

1) TAKE THE NEXT STEP
Why not take the next step? If its obvious that you have feelings for eachother, then why not take the risk and become official? The pros with this is basically something amazing love-wise could come from a relationship that originiates from a really solid friendship , especially best friends. The cons? Well if anything goes sour with the relationship and it ends on a bad note, theres a huge chance that the best-friendship you had before will be ruined, and you will be faced with question…was it all worth it?

2) LEAVE GOOD ENOUGH ALONE
If your not interested in actually forming a romantic relationship with them, your main option is to just leave it alone. Back off from the “more than best friends” behavior a little to ensure that your relationship with that person doesn’t cock-block you from talking to other people…and let them know.

3) RIDE IT OUT, BABYY
Just ride it out. If your actions say that you guys are in a relationship, but your words and the title haven’t gotten there yet…just ride it out. Good things come with time, and it will only be a matter of time until both of you realize what is it, or what it isn’t. Pros of this? You don’t rush into anything that you aren’t ready for. Cons? It may never reach the point of a relationship, and it may never sizzle down to a healthy best-friendship. Womp.

AIGHT AIGHT. WHAT DO WE HAVE FOR MUSIC?




...i heard this song on the radio while i was writing this article. HOW EFFIN PERFECT IS THAT YALL?? but yeah, just listen..it might not be your style of music but it's a real cute song.

Best Friend Remix - 50 Cent Feat. Olivia

& of course, 50. "You say he's just a friend, but girl lets not pretend..either he is, or he ain't ya man.."


PEACEEEEE